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Wedding Reception

Our Wedding

Brennan and Shelby crossed paths at a Battle of the Bands in May 2007—though only one of them remembers it. From the start, there was a imbalance: Brennan noticed Shelby right away, while Shelby was blissfully unaware for years. Aside from a prom memory, occasional shared space, and various (secret) text chains, life kept Shelby and Brennan moving in the same circles, just never quite at the same time. After high school, their paths pulled them in different directions. Shelby moved away to pursue a career in engineering. Brennan stayed close to home, heading to welding school and building a steady life in familiar surroundings. During those years, their connection lingered as a gentle “what if”—appearing and disappearing, sometimes close, sometimes distant, but never quite lining up. It wasn’t until the pandemic slowed everything down that things began to shift. Brennan started showing up more consistently in Shelby’s life (although Shelby was 100% convinced, she was friends zoned). Eventually, what once felt mistimed began aligning. As their relationship began to truly flourish, Brennan grew in ways that surprised even him—stepping beyond familiar territory, embracing greater independence, and meeting challenges with a courage and boldness that hadn’t always come easily before. At the same time, Shelby revealed something just as meaningful. Known for her drive, ambition, and occasionally setting her own life on fire, she showed thatthere is one person who can gently ground that momentum—creating space for rest and balance without dimming her spark. Together, they’re worked to build a life where both can fully be themselves—bold and steady, driven and grounded. Along the way, they've added two dogs to their family, a small but telling sign of Brennan’s growth. Through it all, they've discovered the best part of their story isn’t just the milestones or the big moments—it’s the everyday, ordinary ones they get to share, knowing that they are exactly where they’re meant to be: building a life full of love and the kind of partnership that makes everything else fall into place. If you had told those two kids in 2007 that one day they would be getting ready to celebrate their wedding, they never would have believed you. They are immeasurably grateful to have reconnected and built this life together and can’t wait to celebrate their journey and love with all of you on June 16th.

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I met Shelby in Grade 3 at Webster Elementary, and immediately thought she was so cool and I had to be friends with her. Shelby and I had a hilarious list of life lessons that we kept in a chat throughout our early 20’s, and I am so grateful that I had the opportunity to grow up with one of my favourite people. In the words of Pink, whom Shelby loves- let’s get this party started!

Carley Stewart

I have known the couple since high school, although I met the bride much earlier through Girl Guides (I hurt my own feelings counting how many years it's been). Shelby and I's friendship flourished when we became locker buddies all through high school, and had many adventures through Girl Guides and beyond. I like to think that we have always helped each other do better - in school, work, fun, and relationships - so Shelby would not DARE to get married without me there! Jokes aside, I'm so happy to witness this beautiful couple get married, and be a part of the wedding day.

Amy Reinitz

Work brought us together; CrossFit sealed the deal. We love lifting heavy &amp; we love dogs more than people. Shelby is strong, very funny, and has the biggest heart. I’m so proud to call her my friend and honored to stand by her side!

Karen Plotnikoff

I’m lucky to know the bride through work and friendship, and had the chance to watch her reconnect with her now-fiancé after years apart - The ultimate “one that got away” story with the best possible ending. She’s uniquely herself, deeply considerate, and someone you always want in your corner. We also spent a summer as roommates during covid, which only sealed the bond. I’m honored to stand with them on their day, cheering them on and celebrating a love clearly meant to come back around.

Sarah Weston

Brennan and I have known each other most of our lives, having grown up next door to each other. We’ve been to countless concerts together, travelled together, and spent lots of time outdoors together. I’m happy and excited to celebrate with Brennan and Shelby on their wedding day!

Landon Koerber

Ty is familiar with both the bride and groom, having gone to school with both of them. Brennan and Ty have played music together since highschool, which has been both beautiful and chaotic.Despite his sadness of not being able to marry Brennan himself, he is truly excited for the bride and groom to begin their new adventure together and a wedded couple!

Ty Wright

I met Brennan and Shelby in high school. After knowing them for twenty (yikes!) years. I spent many of those years working with Brennan at the Colander restaurant. I am so thrilled to be celebrating this wonderful day with them and sampling all their delicious food ;) Ciao!

Jason Macasso

I am the brother of the groom. I like playing video games and traveling to places I've never been. I collect figurines of all types of things. Hooray!!!!

Chris Whyte

I am the soon-to-be brother-in-law (brother of the Bride). Brennan and I have bonded over our shared love of the Canucks and Metallica. As the groom's go-to resource for navigating the Ravestein family, I am proud to be a part of the team and excited to celebrate their wedding day.

Dakota Ravestein

Wedding Party

Black-tie optional means you’re warmly invited to wear formal evening attire if you’d like, but don’t worry if you prefer something less traditional. Think tuxedos, dark suits, or full-length gowns for those who want to go formal; cocktail dresses, dressy separates, or a sharp blazer and trousers are equally welcome.Our wedding has a punk-rock vibe so feel free to interpret black-tie through that lens. Suggestions:- Men: Tux or dark suit with a slim tie or bow tie; leather jacket or studded details welcome.- Women: Floor-length gowns, cocktail dresses, or tailored separates; consider leather, lace, metallic accents, or bold makeup.- Footwear: Formal shoes, boots, or stylish alternatives—comfort for dancing is encouraged.

Helpful Links for Inspiration & Ideas

<a href="https://thebridalpost.com/black-tie-wedding-guest-dress-ideas/?utm_source=Pinterest&amp;utm_medium=organic" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Black Tie Optional Dress Code</a> <a href="https://www.brides.com/black-tie-optional-wedding-attire-4800698?utm_source=pinterest&amp;utm_medium=social&amp;utm_campaign=shareurlbuttons" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">A Guide to Black-Tie Optional Wedding Attire for Guests</a> <a href="https://champagneandsavings.com/blog/black-tie-attire?utm_source=Pinterest&amp;utm_medium=organic" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">How to Look Appropriate but Chic at a Black Tie Event</a> <a href="https://closetcachete.com/style-guide/black-tie-for-women/?utm_source=Pinterest&amp;utm_medium=organic" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Ultimate Guide to Black Tie Attire for Women: Mastering Elegance for Every Formal Occasion</a>

Dress Code

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Q + A

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Travel

Brennan and Shelby invite you to explore and add to your visit with some of their favourite spots! From cozy cafés to local treats and must-try experiences, there’s plenty to enjoy—making your trip a little more fun.

Brennan & Shelby

Brennan & Shelby

Things to Do

Castle Bowl

Empire Coffee

Kokanee Mountain Zipline

Cantina Del Centro - Nelson

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